Know Your Options Lotus Magnet
"If you don't know your options, you don't have any." --a great quote from Diana Korte and Roberta Scaer's book A Good Birth, A Safe Birth.
Don't forget to look up answers to all the questions you have, and maybe even a few that you didn't know you needed to ask. Knowledge is power, and knowing about the risks and benefits of common interventions and complications will help you feel empowered to make the tough decisions if they are presented.